II. Defining Pain Behavior
III. What Can Influence Pain Behaviors?
IV. What Happens When We Use Pain Behaviors?
V. How Can We Influence Cycles That Occur When We Use Pain Behaviors?
VI. Homework – Changing Pain Behaviors
VII. Relaxation Technique – Relaxation Response
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Behavior –ones’ actions or reactions, which can be observed or heard by others.
Pain Behavior – the things people do to communicate that they are suffering.
2. One interprets feelings/attitudes by behavior but they are not.
D. Discuss the differences between pain and pain behavior.
2. They then can cause problems.
3. People do not show pain behaviors just to “get attention.”
4. You should ask yourself, “At this point in time, is the pain behavior helping me or hurting me? Do I want to change it? “
5. If something desirable happens following a pain behavior, that pain behavior is more likely to occur in the future. If something undesirable stops following a pain behavior, that pain behavior is more likely to occur in the future. Ignoring a pain behavior should decrease the occurrence of that behavior.
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1. Pain Behaviors are ambiguous – their meaning is not clear to the observer.
· What are some possible meanings of pain behaviors?
1. I hurt.
2. Help me
3. I need you
4. Leave me alone
5. Come closer
6. I can’t do _____.
7. Don’t expect much from me today.
Problem: People may misinterpret your own Pain Behaviors.
· Do pain behaviors elicit responses from others?
Problem: People may not respond the way you want.
· Restaurant Vs. Home
· People’s responses to us influence our mood and behavior.
Problem: People may not respond the way you want.
Take Over Activities
“I Can’t”
Irritated
Decreased Activity
Ignore
Leave You Out
Resentment
Irritated
Decreased Activity
Pain is difficult to influence directly, but you can influence the pain behaviors you engage in.
2nd - Eliminate pain behaviors by retraining.
2. Good Posture
3. Decrease Medication Use
4. Avoid Lying Down
5. Avoid Talking About Pain
6. Get Involved in Nonpain Activities
7. Remind Each Other
We are not saying that people engage in pain behaviors to get attention. Pain behaviors are not good or bad in and of themselves. The question is, are the ones I show helping me or hurting me? If hurting, then it is time to change.
You can also influence other people’s responses to your pain behaviors.
2. Be affectionate regardless of pain behaviors.
3. Be clear in your communication. (Assertiveness).
· Decide whether or not these pain behaviors are helping or hurting you.
· Focus on the pain behaviors that are hurting you.
· Write down how you will replace those pain behaviors? Write down a date for implementing your new strategy.
Process Questions:
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